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Sandy Read Reiberg's avatar

Reading your stories is the best thing I've been able to do while recovering from my hip surgery- well, besides eating yummy chocolate chip cookies of course. Bravo, Bob. Keep them coming. And I'd love to know if Christopher's memories are similar to yours and Barbara's.

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Robert  Basler's avatar

that's a good question, Sandy. and thanks for the kind words!

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Robert  Basler's avatar

Ah. We had those, too. The "no family" posts were pretty popular with married guys with several kids...

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Dave Cook's avatar

It's interesting how similar journalist assignments overseas are to military deployments. Accompanied tours to Okinawa, Japan were three years, so there were constant comings and goings. When it was our turn to "rotate" back to CONUS, we had to get the youngins prepared also.

Not much changed in my civilian assignments - when I was on Guam, one of my friends mentioned that it was like being on a cruise ship - people showed up, became friends, saw each other every weekend and sometimes during the week, then people left. Some leave and you never heard from them again, some left with lifelong friendships.

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Robert  Basler's avatar

Exactly the same, Dave. Except what is an "accompanied tour?" Does that mean the Marines didn't trust you to go alone?

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Dave Cook's avatar

Pretty much. Accompanied meant you could take your family and go for three years, Unaccompanied was usually one year - no family.

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Jennifer King's avatar

As is the picture of Bob in his shirt.

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Rita Jane Gabbett's avatar

The picture of Christopher on the bus is priceless!

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Anne-Marie Epp's avatar

Thoroughly enjoyed the column, Bob. Found myself reading it through that hazy screen of nostalgia that shrouds the homes we've left, rebuilt elsewhere, and the ones to which we've returned, sometimes. I'm sending a hug to anyone who feels homesickness, "Heimweh", "Soledad" and all its variations.

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Jennifer King's avatar

You do not mention Wanchai in your list of desirable abodes, home to at least one of your colleagues.......

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Robert  Basler's avatar

My fault, Jennifer....

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Jeremy's avatar

Searching for somewhere safer, we left Indonesia after riots there following the Asian crisis only to end up in the U.S. for 9/11.

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Robert  Basler's avatar

Is this Jeremy W.?

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trixiebettsDornoch's avatar

Did the skillet and the leather wing chair travel to HK and back home with you?

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Robert  Basler's avatar

indeed they did...

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Kim Straus's avatar

Had a great couple of days on Penang in 1988. Great food, great sights (including a temple full of cobras) and no rain. We offered our guides, parents of a college student we knew, a meal at the restaurant of their choice. They chose Kentucky Fried Chicken, situated in an old colonial house. Fanciest KFC I’d ever seen but not my first choice for a meal anywhere!

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Robert  Basler's avatar

Penang is home to one of those iconic hotels from a bygone era - the E&O. Like the Strand in Rangoon, the Raffles in Singapore, the Oriental in Bangkok....

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Kim Straus's avatar

I had a Singapore Sling at the Raffles and cocktails and satay on the terrace at the Oriental but couldn't afford to stay in either.

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John Rogers's avatar

Brought back memories... Good one, Bob.

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Robert  Basler's avatar

Thank you, John...

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evelyn leopold's avatar

a good one!

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Patricia Coonan's avatar

Only if I need to get off the floor.

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Patricia Coonan's avatar

Thanks for reminding us what home really is. Wherever the people I love are, with or without a chair. I’ll gladly sit on the floor to be with them.

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Robert  Basler's avatar

I agree, Pat, but a chair always helps...

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